Almost everyone dreams of finding their “true love” at some point in life. It’s one of the most common desires people try to manifest, and for good reason. A fulfilling, aligned relationship adds so much joy, growth, and support to your life. If you’re ready to manifest your dream partner, I’m going to share a few mindset shifts and practices that can help you get into alignment and manifest the love you truly desire.

Doubt is something you’ll experience more often as someone knew to this space, the more you improve your mindset, the less doubt will creep in and the easier it will be for you to deal with it. Doubt doesn’t mean your manifestations aren’t coming, it just means your subconscious beliefs are not in alignment with your dreams and desires.

Some common sleep disruptors include a racing mind, blue light, eating heavy meals too close to bedtime, and drinking caffeine too late in the day. There are also other factors like alcohol, room temperature, an uncomfortable bed or pillow, and your bed partner (I hate to say it, but I know from experience… I have a husband!). Some of these are hard to change, but others are totally within your control.

How we do stay in a positive mindset when tough situations arise? Life happens, we experience negative emotions, and that’s okay. We need to let ourselves feel what we feel, then move into the problem-solving mode. Here are some ways I guide myself back into a positive mindset when something bad happens.

Being able to identify your limiting beliefs is crucial for improving your mindset. These are thoughts so deeply ingrained in us that they become part of our belief system—often without us even realizing it. Many limiting beliefs are formed in childhood, but they can also develop at any point throughout life. Identifying and shifting these beliefs is essential because they can unconsciously block you from achieving your goals and desires—and chances are, they already are.

Our brains are naturally wired to focus on the negative—it’s a survival mechanism from our ancestors, who had to be hyper-aware of dangers to stay alive. But today, we’re not constantly fighting for survival. While stress, challenges, and hardships still exist, most of our struggles are not life-or-death situations. Yet, many of us still live in a mindset of fear, worry, and scarcity simply because that’s what we’ve trained our minds to focus on. The good news? You have the power to change that.

One of the biggest challenges people face when trying to attract what they desire is that they unknowingly come from a place of lack. If you have a desire, but when you think about that desire you focus on the absence of it, you are not allowing that desire to manifest into your life.

The number one thing most people want to manifest is money. It’s an exciting yet challenging topic to manifest—exciting because of all the possibilities money brings, and challenging because many of us have a complicated relationship with it. Why is this? Often, it’s because we’ve inherited limiting beliefs from our upbringing. Perhaps our parents struggled financially, had negative views about money, or were secretive about it. These early influences shape our mindset and make it harder to believe we can achieve financial abundance.

Having a morning routine is essential because it sets the tone for your day. To maintain a positive, healthy mindset, we need routines that help us start each day on the right foot. Our days build into weeks, months, and ultimately, our lives. Whether you have 10 minutes, 30 minutes, or a couple of hours, you can implement a morning routine that works for you.

Many of us struggle with limiting beliefs, and much of this struggle stems from our childhood experiences. Limiting beliefs are essentially deeply ingrained thoughts that have become part of our subconscious programming, shaping how we see ourselves and the world. The encouraging part is that these beliefs are not fixed—we have the power to change how we think and, by doing so, shift our beliefs.

Mindset work is the intentional practice of identifying, shifting, and improving your thoughts, beliefs, and perspectives to create a more positive, empowering, and growth-oriented outlook on life. It involves becoming aware of self-limiting beliefs, reframing negative thinking, and cultivating habits that align your mindset with your goals and values.